18May

Mother’s Day Was Meant For Bacon And Muscle Relaxers

I didn’t realize until I went to put together a blog post that our weekend was so full. But that’s probably because I’m generally confused about what day it is and don’t always realize we’ve hit the weekend.

We spent Friday afternoon at the boys’ piano recital. I was a bit nervous because last year, Adam cried and pitched a fit and refused to play. This year, the crowd would be twice as big. He seemed fine about it, though, even cheerful. And he happily played his two pieces, his sweet little feet dangling off the piano bench in rhythm to his song. Such a difference a year makes!

What? Oh, stop it, I didn’t cry. I simply had damp oculars. I’m sure it was allergies.

IMG_7992We celebrated the event with popsicles and take-out dinner eaten on our patio. When I was a kid, my mom always wanted to eat outside and I never understood why when there was perfectly good air conditioning inside that door. But now I know: she didn’t want to clean up the floors after I ate.

Which is why this little moment made me particularly happy. Because at the end of a long week, we would throw all the plates in the trash and leave the crumbs to the critters who roam at night.

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On Saturday, we had Yard Work to do. With capital letters. Since Andrew chopped down a bunch of trees, we discovered that the difficulty doesn’t lie in knocking trees down, it’s what to do with them after. We now have more firewood than we could ever possibly use in five years and there are still 4 trees that need dissecting. Meanwhile, our yard is littered with sticks and stumps and sawdust, oh my!

So we tackled the sticks. The kids and I hauled a brush pile from one part of the yard to another part of the yard, which seems a little pointless unless you understand that the county law prohibits us from burning a brush pile until October and I wasn’t particularly pleased with the location of said brush pile and didn’t want to stare at it until fall.

So we moved it to another location where Andrew broke the limbs down into something that we can burn in our fire pit. And even if we eat roasted hot dogs and marshmallows every night this summer, we will still never burn all those branches.

Anyway, it would have helped if I had some sort of picture documentation so you could at least see a before and after, but I was too busy playing a giant game of Pick-Up Sticks.

At the end of the day, my back gave out and I spent the evening on some mighty fine pain-killers.

Mother’s Day morning, I got to sleep in, which was handy since I needed to sleep off the muscle relaxers. Only my back was no less angry, so I stayed in bed most of the day and, gasp, read a book! I also read to the kids, which is why the reading selection on my bed looked like this:

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I told Andrew the one thing I wanted for Mother’s day was to be completely free of responsibility for meals. I did not want to think about the question, “What are we gonna eat?”

Best. Present. Ever.

Andrew stepped up to the plate and hit a home run with homemade donuts for breakfast, a spinach salad with bacon vinaigrette for lunch, and Five Guys for dinner. And since he threw a salad in the mix, the other two meals don’t count, right?

IMG_8054We are home from church now and Andrew is whisking up the best chocolate mousse ever. I’ll show you how to make it soon. But first, I’m gonna eat some in the name of “research.”

I so enjoyed my people this weekend. They make every day, whether we’re schooling, celebrating, yard working, or eating, such an adventure.

IMG_8046I’d also like to take a minute to recognize this man, without whom I would never have received the title: Mother. Thanks for the Mother’s Day of my dreams, babe.

IMG_8053Finally, Happy Mother’s Day to women everywhere, because no matter where or who we are, we will always find somebody to nurture.

And glory to Him who sets the lonely in families. (Psalm 68:6)

 

 

 

 

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What Finn Really Thinks

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‘Round Here

Spring done sprung up ’round here in the last few weeks. As documented by the pollen-covered baby crawling around on my front porch.

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Said baby is right on the cusp of walking. He practices by pushing his brothers and sisters around the room. He grabs them by the waist and won’t let go until they hold his hands and help him “walk.” He’s quite the tyrant about it. Fortunately, they don’t mind too much, although Mira finds it difficult to get him off her back.

When the kids aren’t around, Finn practices with the kitchen trash can. The other day, I found it pushed into the master bathroom and then abandoned. Fortunately, Finn left his favorite ball carefully deposited inside so I knew who the culprit was.

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Many of you have nicely asked about the bees. I promise a full post is coming soon, but Andrew convinced me to visit them in their new hive. I got close enough to take this picture before squealing like a little girl and running away.

I did it all for you people.

Never doubt that you are loved, bloggy eyeballs.

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I’m slowly finding my footing here as we begin to claim “the new normal” after moving and a winter of sickness. I even hauled out my grain mill a few weekends ago and attempted bread. There’s no picture because it was my typical failure and because we ate it all.

However, one of my kitchen fortes is breakfast. The kids expect at least one “fancy” breakfast on the weekends. Andrew started this while I was on bed rest with Finn. He felt bad that the kids ate nothing but cereal all week so he treated them to donuts on Saturday. The kids decided this was a Scripturally mandated tradition that had to be carried on.

After a year and a half, we’re putting our foot down and wresting breakfast back from their sugar-filled paws. To appease them for our lack of runs to the donut store, I made homemade donuts. Sort of.

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They’re actually more like giant donut holes. Or donut muffins? I made them in muffin tins because I don’t have a fancy donut pan. I try to share my Saturday morning breakfasts with a recipe on Instagram, so you’re welcome to follow me there if you’re into lousy photos of breakfast.

When he’s not playing with bees or keeping us all in line, Andrew has been playing lumberjack. There are several trees that needed to come down on the property so he bought himself a chain saw and learned how to use it.

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Confession: I cried when this tree fell. I knew why it had to go (it’s five feet from our house and with the tornados we get, could easily fall on the kids’ bedrooms.) But I suddenly hated the backyard. I didn’t want it to change. I didn’t want the light to be different in my kitchen. I didn’t want to lose all the shade on the back porch.

And it struck me: this place feels like home now. It didn’t when we first moved in. It needed so much work, it was so unfamiliar. And there’s still much we need to and want to do.

But I’ve stood at my kitchen window every morning for five months now and watched the sun come over the trees in the backyard and it’s never failed to make me smile and worship my Creator. I’ve sat on the front porch with friends while we laughed and solved all the world’s problems. I’ve sipped coffee with Andrew on the porch swing and dreamed about all the “some days” while the kids play under the Japanese maple.

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We’ve all delighted in each new bloom or bud around here, like a present on Christmas morning. “Look! Jasmine!”

“Did you see the sweet william coming up in this patch?”

But jasmine and sweet william aren’t the only things growing these days.

We’re growing into our house, beginning to blossom under its eaves.

And it feels like home.

Even if it does come with a healthy dose of pollen…

 

 

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Do Not Adjust Your Screen

The pictures really are that blurry…

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We were invited to a birthday party today at one of those fancy wall-to-wall trampoline places. We especially loved the foam pit. Andrew managed to stop by in between meetings and took a few plunges himself.

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Adam and I preferred to belly flop.

All of the kids were thrilled, but Willa seemed especially joyful. She jumped and jumped and jumped. And she flew with such happy abandon.

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Finn, meanwhile, was mesmerized by all the crazy action around him. He would tolerate bouncing on the trampoline some, but mostly he wanted to just sit and take it all in.

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Finn and the birthday boy

Until someone with a better camera turned up. Then he turned on the charm.

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We had a ball.

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I even discovered my inner gymnast.

Even though you can’t see our faces in all these blurry photos, we were grinning from ear to ear.

And I guess that’s pretty much what life feels like for us: one big blur of a giant freefall where you are alternately terrified and gleeful.

I’m so glad I get to face gravity with these people…

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They know how to do it up right.

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Birthday Eye Candy

Finn has the most expressive little face. We keep ourselves in stitches making up captions for his every glance and stare. And since I still can’t put two words together about our birthday weekend, I shall give you Finn Eye Candy instead.

You’re welcome.

Hubba Hubba…

p.s. Pictures taken by the sweet Hannah of Sage Hill Designs.

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First and Last

A year ago today, he stood beside me while I worked through the night and into the morning of his birthday.

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He won’t reminisce with me about it, because he says he doesn’t like to relive the feeling of helplessness or my pain. But he wasn’t helpless. He never left my side.

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He cheered and comforted, jumped up and down in excitement while I finished the job.

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And then at last, I had his birthday present in my arms.

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He said Finn was the best birthday present ever.

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And one look at that face told me his daddy was right: I’d never top this birthday.

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Today is the day to celebrate the birth of the First Boy I Loved and the birth of my Last Love. A year ago, I didn’t think I could love them more.

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But now I know I can.

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 Happy Birthday, men o’mine.

 

p.s. To relive Finn’s birth story with me since Andrew won’t, go here.

p.p.s. Thanks again, Allison, for the pictures. They still make me cry.

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Tuesday Mornings with Littles

The big kids started back to homeschool co-op this morning. They were crazy excited. I’m pretty sure they were up at 6 am. They appeared downstairs at seven, dressed and already wearing their backpacks.

This particular morning, Andrew was able to keep the Littles with him while I drove the “bus” to co-op. When I returned home, Finn was down for a nap but I was greeted on the front porch by two very excited little girls. “You come do something fun with us now, Mommy?”

And I realized that this co-op day is just as much for them as it is for the older kids. For five happy hours, they are the sole recipients of my attention. We do preschool things and they can talk as much as they want to me because I’m not trying to teach math or reading.

The volume in our house goes down and we take a slower pace. And inevitably, I feel brave enough to drag out the paints.

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After our painting party, we had a dance party to their current favorite song from the Aristocats, “Everybody Wants To Be A Cat.”

I will spare you pictures of my crazy cat moves, but I sure wish I could record Mira singing every word, perfectly on pitch. The girl has pipes, y’all.

After our opening performance, I curled my little kittens up on the couch to watch Aristocats.

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Just to continue the theme, I steamed some warm milk and added a hint of chocolate to their cups. Then we sat and watched their movie and drank our “creme de la creme” like the cats on TV.

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When we signed up for co-op, I knew they would benefit from some focused Mommy time, but I didn’t really expect them to notice the difference in their days. Coming home to two wildly excited young ladies today made me realize that they treasure their Special Time and it’s up to me to intentionally make it special.

So, any ideas?

I’ve got a whole semester’s worth of Tuesday mornings to fill. What are your best preschool websites, craft ideas (NO GLITTER, PLEASE), or theme suggestions? We’re all ears…

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How To Have The Best Family Reunion Ever

(Prepare your eyeballs. I’m about to assault them with pictures of fun people you may not recognize.)

It’s important that you wear the proper attire to a family gathering. Matching is always appropriate.

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Hold any child that deems your lap comfortable. Expect children to make the rounds between family members and choose favorites.

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Anybody with an iPad or laptop to entertain the kids and garner relative silence in a house full of 38 people will be a hero. And it isn’t fun for the kids unless they pile as many as they can onto a couch meant to hold half that many people.

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Games are a must. Winner of the euchre tournament gets bragging rights until the next reunion. Except more than likely, no one will remember who won since you all stayed up so late playing to the point of delirium.

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Eat much and often. It’s important to keep your strength up for all the fun you’re having.

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For the traditional talent show, you’ll need an audience.

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A proper talent show should always include several songs. A rewrite of “The Twelve Days of Christmas” or a love song to Chik-fil-A and/or a Rusty Chevrolet are expected.

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Story-telling should be included. A Shakespearean version of the The Three Little Pigs is appropriate and properly hilarious, while Grammy’s version of the little old lady who can’t get over the pig sty is regularly reprised. (p.s. If you squint closely, you can see the head of a sick aunt who, due to illness, was forced to view the entire show from above. No one is left out of the fun, even if they’re sick!)

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Further talent offerings should include (but are not limited to):

Playing “Joy To The World” on the kazoo while balancing on a ball,

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A demonstration of ping-pong paddle skills,

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The requisite performance of “Sisters” from “White Christmas,”

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An interpretive dance and a hip-hop lesson, in which everyone learned to isolate their shoulders and discovered which muscles were suffering from disuse,

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And four-part harmony to old spirituals performed on, you guessed it, kazoos.

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The cousins should band together for several musical numbers, one of which must almost always come from “White Christmas.” This year’s performance of “Choreography” was an unexpectedly delightful choice.

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And finally, for a grand finale, an all-cousin cast of characters to perform one grand lip sync, preferably to another family favorite movie, “The Sound of Music.”

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After such an exciting and lengthy performance, nothing but a cozy pile-up on the couch will do. Again, the more cousins on the couch, the better.

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Finish the weekend off with a healthy dose of Vitamin C (to avoid the plague everyone seems to carry) and a piece of Grammy’s cherry pie.

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Collapse in happy exhaustion wherever you can find the space.

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Then count the months, days, weeks, hours, and minutes until we can do it all again…

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Mira Gets Dressed For the Day

Mira got fresh braids put in today. I washed and de-tangled her hair and then sweet Mrs. Jean came and braided it up. We added Christmas themed beads, much to Mira’s excitement. She couldn’t wait to look in the mirror and preen. And then she spun around and gave me a great big ol’ CHEESE for the camera.

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Is it possible for a person’s heart to explode with joy? That smile… it does it to me.

She hates sitting still for all the hair fixing, but she loves the results. Just like she appreciates what a good outfit can do for one’s day. She understands my friend Abby’s concept of Dress For The Day You Want To Have.

And the kind of day Mira likes to have is a “Spinny Dress Day.”

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 The more ruffles and sparkles the better and (I can’t help myself), if I see one, I buy it for her. It just makes her walk a little taller, you know? And I count those Walking Tall Days in my Mommy heart. Every. One.

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The words are pouring forth from her lips more and it is such a relief to hear the thoughts behind the eyes she uses to shows us her heart. She turns those orbs on us and we are lost to her joy, or sad in her depths.

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There are still days when she’s sad. And sometimes we don’t know if she’s sad because she’s two and a half and life is hard when you’re two and a half… Or if her sadness runs deeper.

Even though she seems like such a Daddy’s girl, last week when I stayed in bed with the flu, she fell to pieces and ceased to function. As soon as I got out of bed, the light returned to her eyes. Note to self: never get the flu again. For a myriad of reasons.

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As mothers do, I struggle with how to handle her sadness sometimes. We never want our babies to hurt. But we don’t always know if we should simply console or encourage them to choose joy.

Recently, Mira’s tears aren’t so much about sadness, they are about jealousy. She is jealous for her parents.

Did you hear that?

She’s jealous for what she feels she deserves… She’s acting like every other nearly three year old I’ve ever seen. She’s acting like part of this family.

She has a place. She knows it. And she knows how to fight for it, just like every other kid that’s ever had a sibling and parents that they like.

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So now when I see her lower lip stick out and she gets possessive and clingy, I want to throw back my head and giggle.

She was always ours. But now she knows it.

Glory to Him who grows Family in the heart of a child.

Glory to Him who grows the heart of a parent to love in ways they never imagined.

And Glory to Him who makes This Smile, today and every day.

As long as she wears it, she is dressed for any day.

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*Beachy photos courtesy of Southern Rose Photography 

 

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Breaking In the New House

I was the last one to sit down for supper last night, which is how I had only taken one bite of my green beans when Mira threw up on the table.

Yep, my meal was over.

And if you’re keeping score, we’re doing our part to break-in the new house. Willa peed on the floor within ten minutes of moving in. That very same night, someone overflowed the potty. The kids have now thrown up on both levels of the house. We’ll have this place completely Vitafammed in no time.

Mira appeared to be fine this morning, but Adam joined Sam and Ian in the quarantine room. Not sure if we have mycoplasma or just a virus, but either way, our pharmacists are happy to know us this week.

My fellas spent the last two days holed up in their barely unpacked room. Yesterday, the poor dears didn’t have heat. We’ve rectified the situation with a temporary fix from the electrician although the boys barely noticed they were so busy playing with the iPad or being reunited with all the books we’ve had in storage for months.

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Meanwhile, downstairs, the Littles and I are dodging boxes and painters. They finished most of the work on the bedrooms today and are working on our main living area. Having a baby who crawls amidst paint cans, eats the painters’ putty, and pulls up on things makes this difficult.

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Consequently, we spent a lot of time hiding out in the girls’ room today. And I guess since the heat is on upstairs for the first time, the girls felt it was balmy enough to don swimsuits. They pretended they were “swimming.”

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This is the scene downstairs as I write tonight. I’m super excited to see the walls turning some other color than puke green.

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We’ve got enough puke around here without it.

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